Some people can give up their career for love, while others believe
career is more important than love! TVB young FaDan, Mandy Wong, had her
boyfriend's support 5 years ago to participate in Miss Hong Kong and
entered the industry from there. Due to her new unfixed work schedule,
she and her boyfriend eventually had conflicts and after several attempt
recoveries, the relationship had to be "certified".
MANDY: "I
believe not many people can remember that I entered the industry through
Miss Hong Kong. I remember that time, I didn't have much courage, it
was my mother who encouraged me to participate in the contest. I didn't
feel strongly about it at all and I was afraid my boyfriend wouldn't
like it. However, he was actually very supportive, but I still had a lot
of mix feelings while I was running for Miss HK. First, I wasn't
someone in the limelight, I just focused on my own training. I was so
silly to think, "don't let me win" because if I won, then I would have
to give up my relationship. I basically didn't know how the
entertainment circle is like. Everyone just has their attention on the
popular contestants and I was considered the dark horse. Perhaps because
that year they had a lot of dance performances and I had a dance
background, so I was able to pick up faster than others and gain more
confidence. The moment before the winners were announced, I kept telling
myself, please don't say my name, but in the end Kayi Cheung won. I
think it was well deserved for her because she has very high EQ.
Starts out Discouraged After
Miss HK ended, I entered the TVB Artistes Training Class, but I started
out very discouraged. I saw the three Miss HK winners were dressed so
beautiful, doing goodwill activities and gaining experience. It turns
out this feeling I had was envy, I really envied them. I started from
zero, and I began to think if I had won the title, I could probably get
famous faster and my future in this industry will be brighter. Luckily, I
quickly adjusted my mentality and soon after, TVB made arrangements for
me to join the acting crew and officially start my acting career.
I
started working day and night, my schedule wasn't fixed and I had less
time to be with my boyfriend. I used to spend the majority of my time
with him, but since the filming schedules were unfixed, I couldn't just
leave work and go out to play. Slowly, we began having more conflicts
and also my family financial issues got worse and worse. Although we
tried to rescue the relationship, it eventually didn't work out. I
thought to myself, not unless I quit! I felt very contradicting, the
relationship was dragging for some time. I knew career and love cannot
coexist, so I made a very hard decision, that was to end our 4 year
relationship and focus entirely on my career. It is harsh, but I had no
other choice!
Would Make Same Decision Even Had to Choose Again Back
to single life, I actually felt like I lost a heavy burden. I could
concentrate more on work and didn't have as much to worry about. I
didn't have to worry about [my boyfriend] being unhappy because I had a
kiss/intimate scene with someone else. There was no longer distractions,
I could concentrate more on my character, so even if I had to choose
again today, I would have done the same thing, choose career over my
relationship without hesitation. I'm not cold-blooded, I just think
since I chose to pursue an acting career, I should focus entirely on it.
I cannot let other things affect me. I enjoy the sense of
accomplishment my work brings me, so I sacrificed my relationship and
had absolutely no complaints because a relationship requires engagement
by both parties. It is mutual accommodation, and not full of complaints!
In the past few years, I've been very lucky. I was given many
good roles where I could really develop on, such as "Aam Chun Mui",
"Kwan Yee So" and more recently, "Lai Sui Mui". To the audience, the
roles gave off different feelings and seeing everyone discussing about
it, whether if its compliments or criticisms, to me, it is all just
opinions. This year I've been flattered as the hot favorite for "Most
Improved Actress" award. Awards are important to artists because it
gives us certainty, of course I hope to get it!
Thankful of Poon Ka Tak for "Aam Chun Mui" Role Just
in a blink of an eye, it has already been 5 years since I've debuted.
Counting it all, I've been in many many series. Although I was never
the first lead, many producers still treat me really well and give me a
lot of opportunities. Just like producer Poon Ka Tak, he is definitely
my "Pak Lok" (person identifying her talents) because he was the one who
casted me in
Suspects in Love, where I gained audience recognition for "Aam Chun Mui". Then it keeps going, like
The Hippocratic Crush and
Divas in Distress,
I had lots of room to develop in both roles. Aside from work, we still
meet to catch up. My relationship with him is like mentor and friends.
When I encounter a problem I can't resolve, I ask for his advice."